Amy D’Arcy and Nicole Thomas — Healing at the Well: Turning Grief Into Grace
Amy D’Arcy and Nicole Thomas join host Kim Moeller on the Generous Girl podcast to share their inspiring story of faith, resilience, and redemption. As co-founders of Healing at the Well, a grief ministry based in San Clemente, California, they open up about their personal journeys through widowhood and the unexpected calling that grew from sorrow. This heartfelt episode shows how community, spiritual healing, and generosity converge in powerful ways.
Watch the full interview here: https://youtu.be/lYtXYWDvx9A
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Empowering Stories of Resilience (00:02)
Amy D’Arcy and Nicole Thomas begin by sharing how their lives changed forever after losing their husbands. Despite different backgrounds, their grief paths led to a shared mission rooted in faith and generosity. Their testimony reveals the power of grace and a supportive faith community.
Life-Changing Loss and Resilience (03:08)
For Amy, losing her husband Joe just before her 40th birthday changed everything. Nicole Thomas also shares her story of navigating loss amid a thriving corporate career. These transformative moments would ultimately lead them to start Healing at the Well.
Overwhelming Struggles and Devastating Loss (07:46)
In raw and vulnerable reflection, Amy D’Arcy and Nicole Thomas speak about parenting alone, emotional exhaustion, and the deep layers of grief. Their courage to share what others often hide offers comfort to those walking a similar path.
Counseling Support in Grief Journey (11:31)
Healing came through counseling and faith-centered groups like Survivors of Suicide Loss and Never Alone. These resources guided Amy and Nicole to renewed strength and deeper understanding of their journey.
Love, Loss, and Maui Beginnings (13:39)
A soul-restoring retreat in Maui sparked the idea for Healing at the Well. Through tears, laughter, and prayer, a friendship between Amy and Nicole blossomed into a ministry that now supports widows across the country.
Finding Community and Healing (18:31)
The founding of Healing at the Well gave Amy and Nicole a place to channel their experiences into purpose. Their site, healingatthewell.org, offers encouragement, resources, and events for widows on the path to healing.
Generosity and Community in Action (19:41)
Their stories reflect the impact of small acts of generosity—meals delivered, childcare offered, and quiet companionship. Amy D’Arcy and Nicole Thomas now give back by empowering other women in grief.
Embracing Faith and Leadership (22:55)
Key scriptures like Isaiah 61:1–3 and Psalm 91:4 sustained them through their darkest moments. These verses are now pillars of their ministry and a reminder that healing is sacred work.
Empowering Women Through Personal Connection (27:01)
Healing at the Well provides safe spaces for widows to be heard and understood. Amy and Nicole’s compassionate leadership is rooted in shared experiences and the belief that no woman should grieve alone.
Healing and Purpose for Widows (31:58)
Amy D’Arcy and Nicole Thomas exemplify how pain can be transformed into purpose. Their ministry reminds others that God is present in grief, and healing often begins with helping someone else.
Community Support is Essential (34:41)
From prayer groups to neighbors showing up, Amy and Nicole share the importance of community. Their journey proves that a supportive network can carry us when we feel unable to stand.
Finding Hope and Purpose in Jesus (37:47)
Their enduring faith in Jesus was their foundation. Even in silent seasons, they clung to God’s presence and emerged with deeper conviction to help others through Healing at the Well.
Empowering Communication and Boundaries (40:10)
Books like The Emotionally Healthy Woman by Geri Scazzero and Giving Your Words by Sally and Clay Clarkson taught Amy and Nicole to reframe boundaries and communication in healing ways.
Journey to Emotional Wholeness (42:33)
Healing at the Well isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. With spiritual guidance and personal insight, Amy D’Arcy and Nicole Thomas lead widows toward wholeness, one gentle step at a time.
Final Reflections
This powerful conversation with Amy D’Arcy and Nicole Thomas shows that healing is possible—even from life’s most painful moments. Through Healing at the Well, they’ve created a ministry where hope rises from heartbreak.
“He will cover you with His feathers, and under His wings you will find refuge.” — Psalm 91:4
Next steps:
Visit healingatthewell.org
Watch the video: https://youtu.be/lYtXYWDvx9A
Explore resources on GenerousGirl.com
Connect with Survivors of Suicide Loss and Never Alone
Read The Emotionally Healthy Woman and Giving Your Words
Every story matters. Share this with someone walking through grief. Let Amy D’Arcy and Nicole Thomas remind them: they are not alone—and healing is always possible.
